Have you ever stopped to think about how your closest relationships began? I made my first lifelong friend at age 5, when I encountered a girl my age in the yard next to mine and, over the fence between our houses, quietly said "Hi." In fact, when I sit down and think about my closest friends, each of our relationships began with that simple word. A "hello" and a smile. It's amazing how human interaction can spark a deep connection. I have spent much time marveling at how the possibilities of the world can open up upon simply introducing yourself to someone. Recently, I made a new friend in Brazil using this approach. Having seen an inspiring idea she posted about online, I sent her a private message to tell her that she had moved me to follow. A conversation ensued, and I was shocked and pleased at the way this interaction shaped me. |
Carina shared that she likes to leave little bags of chocolate on her neighbors' doorknobs to help bring a smile to their faces. I inquired about what led her to start this and how it has impacted her life. It turns out, this little act of kindness is only one of many significant acts she performs on a daily basis.
I live a life based on kindness. You know that whole 'be the change you want to see in the world' idea? I truly believe it and follow it. I started leaving the chocolate bags on my neighbors' doors just to wish them a nice day... just to make them smile!"
But here's where I was really touched. Carina also shared some of the other ways she spreads kindness in quiet ways… I knew I had to share these, because they are simple, heartwarming and significant ways all of us can help improve the lives of others!
I also started 'losing books' around the city on purpose. I write a note on it, saying hello to the person who finds it and telling them to take it, read it if they want and then lose it again, so other people can read it. So I leave these books at cafes, on the bus, the subway, restaurants, etc. I thought it was a nice idea to encourage the habit of reading. Plus it spreads some kindness and fun around."
Changing someone's life sounds like such a big task. But with the power of a simple 'hello,' you never know what you will accomplish! I gained new ideas for random acts of kindness, I made a new friend, and I look forward to seeing where my chain of 'hellos' will lead me next. Who will YOU say hello to today? It may change a life!